Hiatus

I can't believe it has been over 2 years since I have posted anything on this blog! Time has truly slipped away from me. A lot has happened in 2 years. Yes, I am still divorced, but life has taken me down an unexpected path. I am no longer in the midst of dating hell..yes, dating hell. Since I have last updated this blog, I have decided to put my family back together.

SHOCKER RIGHT!?!!

I know that whoever ends up reading this blog will have this question: How on earth did that happen?

It happened quite unexpectedly actually. Honestly, it surprised me and everyone else. Over the next few blog posts I plan to share how that came about. Although my life has taken a bit of a turn, I still plan to do what I set out to do with this blog, which was to help others through this maze called divorce.

Stay tuned....

Those dreaded words..

Before the divorce is in full swing, I am sure that your soon to be ex has muttered one of these phrases:

• "I don't love you anymore"
• "Maybe we should take some time apart"
• "It's not you, it's me"

The list is endless. I just decided to list some of the more popular ones. After hearing whatever phrase your soon to be ex uses take some time to absorb what has been said. I am sure the initial reaction will be one of two things: sadness and / or anger. That is normal. This is the point in time where you may, perhaps want to be alone or call a friend to vent. Whatever is going to help you clear your head. Do it.

The one thing you do not want to do is beat up on yourself or blame yourself totally. In a marriage it takes two and when it ends the fault is on both sides. Here's one thing to consider - your soon to be ex has said those words..so now what? Take some time to figure out if you yourself feels any differently towards your soon to be ex. This is the time to reevaluate what you want and where you want to go.